Hello! It’s been a while, and I wanted to share a milestone with you. Actually, quite a few milestones. Before I begin, I hope everyone is doing well. Two years ago, I wrote about eight things I learned as a second-year nursing student. Now, fast forward, and I am writing to you as a graduate holding a Bachelor of Science in Nursing with Highest Honors. By God’s grace, being able to share this accomplishment feels surreal. From organizing and empowering younger nursing students and being part of the Scientific Nursing Society to representing nursing at conferences like the Sehati Conference and presenting as a UAE Youth Forum Ambassador at the International Nursing, Midwifery, and Allied Health Congress, I thought it fitting to share another set of lessons I’ve learned in the last two years of nursing school.
Nursing school, challenging as it is, prepared me for what lies beyond. While sharing these golden lessons from the past two years, I want to highlight that if you’re a student currently struggling while others seem ahead, remember—you are exactly where you need to be. Moving at your own pace and focusing on self-improvement is key, and the rest will fall into place. You’ve got this.
1. YOU should be your biggest competitor - We all know someone who seems better than us. Competing with them or comparing yourself to them can limit your vision. Once you achieve their status, you might stop striving. Instead, focus on improving what you already have; the sky is the limit.
2. Own up - Never avoid responsibility. Owning up to your actions may not always be easy, but it leads to the right outcomes. It builds discipline and encourages you to think twice before acting. As a nursing graduate, this sense of responsibility towards others is crucial, as accountability is essential for both your patients and yourself.
3. Study, study, study - “Your GPA won’t matter in the future,” but your knowledge and expertise will make you stand out in a room full of professionals. While practical skills are important, theory is the foundation. Just as a healthy diet supports weight loss, practical and theoretical skills together ensure high-quality patient care. So, study not just to pass exams but to expand your knowledge and expertise. And if you’re pursuing a higher degree, your GPA does matter.
4. Kill 'em with kindness - Kindness is one of the most important virtues. As God instructs us to be kind to reflect His qualities, Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon Him) said, “Kindness is a mark of faith, and whoever is not kind has no faith.” Be kind to your family, peers, colleagues, and others. A simple act of kindness, like a smile, can make a significant difference in someone’s day.
5. The first step of the ladder: Courage - I recently learned in my Ethics course that all virtues depend on courage. It’s like the first block in a domino chain, essential for achieving goals and sticking to values. Reflecting on my achievements and relationships, I realize they all stemmed from having the courage to take the first step. So, whether you’re worried, shy, or concerned about opinions, take that first step, initiate, and do what you do best. Everything will follow.
I initially intended to list five things but wanted to add a bonus lesson, as I’ve mentioned before: We have a quote in Arabic, "الصاحب ساحب" which translates to “A friend pulls you.” This highlights the importance of choosing your circle wisely, as the people you surround yourself with significantly influence your actions and thoughts. Choose your connections carefully.
To all the amazing individuals I’ve met in the past two years—those who have inspired and guided me—I look up to you and deeply appreciate your influence and support.
I’d also like to extend my gratitude to my family, peers, colleagues, professors, and mentors for their invaluable wisdom and support throughout my journey as a student and now as a registered nurse. If you’re a student considering nursing, know that it’s a key to endless opportunities.
Thank you for reading, and have a great day ahead.
-huda
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